Happy Weekend

Thank you everyone for participating in my giveaway! It has brought me so much happiness to read all of your comments, read your first posts or see what your favorite posts have been here at Sweet Eventide. 

A special surprise was my Aunt JoAnne (do not call her aunt though, just call her Jo) launching her own blog accidentally while trying to leave a comment in the giveaway! Not only did that give us both a chuckle, but who knows -- maybe she'll actually continue posting. 



I have a very relaxing and fun weekend planned and I will share more about it next week. I'll be back bright and early Monday morning with the winner of the giveaway, okay? Whatever you do this weekend, spend your favorite time of day in a delightful way. ;)

Friday Poems: Diane di Prima

Today's poem is by Diane di Prima. I had never heard of her until last night when I was reading about her in Word of Mouth (which I was reading again because it's due back at the library today). 

An Italian-American poet and major figure of the beat movement, how have I never run across her considering my dad came of age in the 60s and my English degree?


photo courtesy of The University of Louisville

From the book's introduction: "She believes there is a worldwide war going on against the imagination, and that we have to resist at all costs the flattening and deadening of our dreams." This anthology of poems was published in 2003 so I really wonder if her opinion has changed considering the explosion of creativity on the web via blogs, Etsy, etc.

Here now is our Friday Poem, which di Prima wrote for her maternal nonno.

April Fool Birthday Poem for Grandpa
by Diane di Prima

Today is your
birthday and I have tried
writing these things before,
but now
in the gathering madness, I want to
thank you
for telling me what to expect
for pulling
no punches, back there in that scrubbed Bronx parlor
thank you
for honestly weeping in time to
innumerable heartbreaking
italian operas for
pulling my hair when I
pulled the leaves off the trees so I'd
know how it feels, we are
involved in it now, revolution, up to our
knees and the tide is rising, I embrace
strangers on the street, filled with their love and
mine, the love you told us had to come or we
die, told them all in that Bronx park, me listening in
spring Bronx dusk, breathing stars, so glorious
to me your white hair, your height your fierce
blue eyes, rare among italians, I stood
a ways off, looking up at you, my grandpa
people listened to, I stand
a ways off listening as I pour out soup
young men with light in their faces
at my table, talking love, talking revolution
which is love, spelled backwards, how
you would love us all, would thunder your anarchist wisdom
at us, would thunder Dante, and Giordano Bruno, orderly men
bent to your ends, well I want you to know
we do it for you, and your ilk, for Carlo Tresca,
for Sacco and Vanzetti, without knowing
it, or thinking about it, as we do it for Aubrey Beardsley
Oscar Wilde (all street lights shall be purple), do it
for Trotsky and Shelley and big/dumb
Kropotkin
Eisenstein's Strike people, Jean Cocteau's ennui, we do it for
the stars over the Bronx
that they may look on earth
and not be ashamed.


Phew, I don't know half of those people but it's okay! I know my grandma loved Italian opera, especially Caruso and later Bocelli of course. I wonder if my dad went to the Bronx and listened to her grandpa Dominic Mallozzi stir up the masses? And, by the way, I *totally* believe that part about the hair pulling.

Happy Friday friends, and don't forget you can enter my giveaway until 5 p.m. PST today! I will announce the winner bright and early on Monday morning.

Three Years Old

Do you ever have a tingling hunch that turns out to be right? This just happened to me about three minutes ago. I suddenly wondered when exactly in May did I start my blog?

It turns out that I began blogging on May 13, 2006 -- exactly three years ago.




May 13th is is also a special friend's birthday so let me take this opportunity to say "Happy Birthday Jenni" -- because she has the most cheerful smile and spirit! (Jenni loves the color blue).

I think a spontaneous celebration is in order, don't you?

Leave me a comment on this post by Friday, May 15th at 5 p.m. PST with a link to your very first blog post. If you don't have a blog, no worries. Enter a link to one of your favorite posts of mine -- the archives are right over there to your left. The winner will be chosen randomly by the Noodle out of a bike helmet. The gift? A 4x6 photo (of course) from my shop mounted by Plywerk.

Let my birthday party begin!

Happy Blog Birthday to me!

Swirly Designs

Do you remember playing with these as a kid?

I did and when I saw this set at Restoration Hardware last Christmas, I indulged myself. Here is one set of swirlies (as I call them in my head) that I've made so far.

apparently it's sold out due to popularity


Of course the red, blue and green pens that came with the set just wouldn't do for me. So I set out on an expedition for better colors. You would be surprised how hard it is to find a) good colors in a pen that b) fits in those little holes. But I accomplished my mission at a local and adorable Japanese stationery store.

I have been a wee bit busy lately but this weekend I may have time for more swirly activities like this. You see I've planned a surprise weekend away with my husband! It's been a long time and the countdown is on. :)

(I am able to spoil the surprise just a bit on the old blog because I had to spoil it last week to prevent a working weekend instead.)

True Love

I've been working on my expectations never always lately and especially yesterday on Mother's Day. Usually all that really matters to me is a card -- I love me some greeting cards. Most years, my boys have let me sleep in and then they surprised me with a bouquet of hand-picked wildflowers.

This year, all I really wanted was for my Noodle to treat me kindly as lately I'm the object of his anger for whatever reason. I didn't want a gift or to be waited on all day long. I had a mix this year -- I was very surprised with the gift of a massage and chauffeur service to and from the appointment. But my Noodle and I had several low moments from breakfast all the way through to dinner.

I am not here to post about that ick though. I'm here to share the beautiful card my husband made for me and how meaningful it was to me.

My Kinderkram Waldorf fairy from Treehouse in the Glen


You see, I am not the most naturally playful mama you'll ever meet. I was not a very playful child either. I bought myself this red fairy a few months ago to remind me that there is a playful part of me buried inside. But then I forgot to play with my playful reminder fairy.

What makes this card so special is not even that I have never received a drawing from my husband in our almost-eight-year history (and this drawing amazes me so!) No, the card is special because of the thought behind it. He knew that this year I needed more than words. I needed to see that my playful spirit exists. Even on a hard day when it is buried in the Hudson River like a Mafia victim; along with my loving kindness.

That, dear friends, is true love.

Friday Poems

Oftentimes, I will hear Andy Garcia's voice in my head reading this Pablo Neruda poem. It is from the soundtrack to Il Postino.


If you click the picture, you can hear a sample of Andy reading it!


I used to own this cd but loaned it to someone years ago. I highly recommend it. It's almost like being on a plane to Italy. Hmmm...now come I never bought myself a replacement?

Sonnet XX
Pablo Neruda

Tonight I can write the saddest lines.

Write, for example, 'The night is shattered
and the blue stars shiver in the distance.'

The night wind revolves in the sky and sings.

Tonight I can write the saddest lines.
I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too.

Through nights like this one I held her in my arms
I kissed her again and again under the endless sky.

She loved me sometimes, and I loved her too.
How could one not have loved her great still eyes.

Tonight I can write the saddest lines.
To think that I do not have her. To feel that I have lost her.

To hear the immense night, still more immense without her.
And the verse falls to the soul like dew to the pasture.

What does it matter that my love could not keep her.
The night is shattered and she is not with me.

This is all. In the distance someone is singing. In the distance.
My soul is not satisfied that it has lost her.

My sight searches for her as though to go to her.
My heart looks for her, and she is not with me.

The same night whitening the same trees.
We, of that time, are no longer the same.

I no longer love her, that's certain, but how I loved her.
My voice tried to find the wind to touch her hearing.

Another's. She will be another's. Like my kisses before.
Her voice. Her bright body. Her infinite eyes.

I no longer love her, that's certain, but maybe I love her.
Love is so short, forgetting is so long.

Because through nights like this one I held her in my arms
my soul is not satisfied that it has lost her.

Though this be the last pain that she makes me suffer
and these the last verses that I write for her.


Happy Weekend and Happy Mother's Day to all us hard-working mamas!

And Then...

Six years ago, at 3:04 a.m., my Noodle was born.

It's hard not to be emotional on your child's birthday, at least for this mama. We've been through a lot over these years, and he's taught me more about myself than I ever really wanted to know. He's taught me how to love in a way that I never thought was possible. He's taught me about being an artist.

He's teaching me about forgiveness. He's teaching me to pay attention to the little things. He's teaching me that time doesn't slow down for anyone, so I need to try harder to grab every moment that I can.

He's challenged me, frustrated me, made me cry tears of joy, love, anger, sadness and worry. Six is a whole new thing -- a whole new section for clothing, a whole new vocabulary from school, a whole new level of independence.

So when he asks for extra snuggles at night or for an extra round of the sunshine song?

I'll be right there sweet boy.

Because just yesterday, he was born. I lost a lot of sleep and freedom and suddenly he was one. I spent the next two years chasing him around, keeping him safe from himself and dealing with tantrums the likes of which I had never heard of before. I woke up one day and he was four, rational, eloquent, the big kid at preschool. But before my heart could even recover, he was five and off to kindergarten. Of course that happened about five minutes ago in mama-time.

And then?



...I wrapped his gifts.


...I hoped glitter stickers would show him.


...I watched him smile,
a rare treat this hard year.


...I poured my heart and soul out through my arms,
into his neck and hopefully deep into his heart and soul.

Happy Birthday baby.


Five New Lands

Cinque Terre is a rugged portion of Italy's coast and over centuries villages have been built into the landscape overlooking the sea. It is one of the spots I long to visit (along with the Lakes) on my fourth visit to Italy, whenever that trip makes its way to me.



For now, I spend my days traveling the blog world and I have five classmates that I would like to share with my readers, who are building beautiful villages of their own on the global online coast.

Here are my five new lands, il mio cinque terre.


You may remember ABRE from my recent post Every Monday Matters. I go back to Carolyn's blog because the name alone means something to me, the concept that we all affect each other. This is to say nothing of her inspired, connected (to me) content.

Ashley: 31 Experiment

We both aim to live an authentic and creative life.  She reminds me that my story matters, to keep on telling it.

Alessandra: Gypsy Girl's Guide

Alessandra is parts of me, only miles and miles down the path I have chosen for myself. Her blog gives me faith and hope -- if I can dream it, I can become it. Also, she has this amazing Guide to 10 Charitable Organizations, created because she "wants her business to be sustainable and kind." Wow.

We're traveling down under now for the last two blogs.

Steph: Bondville

I met Steph on the first day of school. She's one of the ones, you know, who make you feel all comfortable on campus even though it was her first day of school too. I would say we were fast friends, an instant click, and if I ever get myself to her part of the world, watch out for some fun! Her blog is chock-FULL of goodness from Australia, such a treat to visit things like her Artist Spotlights.


Lisa shares an ancient Chinese belief as the inspiration for her blog's name: "An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet regardless of time, place or circumstance. The red thread may stretch or tangle, but it will never break." Her blog showcases amazing art like in this recent post Just My Type. I am riveted by the work a Spell by Marian Bantjes.

Mille grazie to Holly Becker of Decor8, my amazing teacher from Blogging Your Way. This e-class was about so much more than "Blog 101" or "How to Improve Your Blog in 10 Easy Steps." It was a precious reminder to me to embrace life and be passionate, be kind, and be friendly. Life can be challenging and things may not be how we want them at the moment, but if you believe in yourself and have a vision, you will get where you want to be.





Bubblegum Dreams

My Noodle was in his first bike race this weekend and after we went out for lunch. Here is the first scoop of bubblegum ice cream of the season. 


Do you see me there in the spoon?!

I loved bubblegum ice cream as a little girl and I still like it because it's full of delicious surprise treats. Actually, it reminds me of my life this week:

Surprise #1: one of my blogging classmates posted about me on her blog Hettle this morning.

Surprise #2:  Sarah featured me today in her Etsy Treasury These Make Me Smile. Treasuries only stay on Etsy for a limited time, so click quickly. :)

Surprise #3: we are waiting on a job offer to come today. I'm hoping it will be a pleasant surprise, not an unpleasant one like I have dreamed the past two nights.

Surprise #4: I am beginning a new class Unravelling and I am so curious what I will discover about myself in the next eight weeks. I bet there will be some surprises.

Surprise #5: The Noodle is turning six this week. I hope I surprise myself and pull off a worthy celebration for him.


Blog Crush: Color Me Katie

I am hereby, on the spot, creating a new feature here in my Sweet Eventide. It is called Blog Crush where I will crush on a new-to-me blog.  

Drumroll please...

my first edition of Blog Crush is on Color Me Katie. 

Because: 

1. She does guerilla art like The Shadow Project. If you read the comments on that post alone, you will realize that this is not unusual for Katie's brain.



2. She gets wet paint on her favorite coat and is she grumpy? No. Does she trash or recycle it? No. She flippin' upcycles it with vintage buttons that her grandpa gave her from her grandma's collection. 

3. She really understands and shares how to live the good life.

I thought I was ready to click "publish post," but I kept browsing her blog first. This is how I am able to tell you that I found a picture she took that reminds me an awful lot of one in my Flickr favorites. Even though it's not Katie's photo, it's too coincidental. It's more like very mysterious, isn't it?

I'm off to put her in my feed reader under "Inspiring." 

Happy Weekend!

Friday Poems: The Fall

I picked up a collection of poetry at the library this week, Word of Mouth, which is an anthology of work featured on NPR's All Things Considered

Today I'm sharing something short (and I think sweet) by Russell Edson. Catherine Bowman, the editor of the book, tells us that Edson "thinks of poems as waking dreams, in that each poem is a moment of being fully conscious while tapping into the dream mind" and he believes "the shorter the work the more it can depend on symbol, metaphor and gesture. There is an exacting precision and logic in these waking dreams."

I learned that Edson's poems are almost always short and he writes exclusively in the prose poem form. Best of all for a girl like me? Edson says, "The world is a strange place and it helps to see yourself as a secret agent." I love it! Just ask my husband, "Who is the real secret agent in the house?" 

The Fall
Russell Edson


  There was a man who found two leaves and came indoors holding them out saying to his parents that he was a tree.

  To which they said then go into the yard and do not grow in the living-room as your roots may ruin the carpet.

  He said I was fooling I am not a tree and he dropped his leaves.

  But his parents said look it is fall.


Do you see this poem as sweet? ironic? biting? something else? I love work such as this because I see many layers stacked into one brief moment. (Note: I have a B.A. in English, so this is a fun activity for me.)

The Behavior of Birds

I have a sad category of blogs that I follow about children with cancer. It is not easy to spend time on these blogs but I am a cancer survivor and that will always be a part of me. I'm also a mother, so my heart will always be affected by these stories. Visiting these blogs can be hard but stunningly important, as they often contain beautiful reminders about living.

I would like to share excerpts of such a reminder today, from Xinxin's blog.

"Have you ever observed the behaviour of birds in the face of adversity? For days and days they make their nests, sometimes gathering materials brought from far away. And when they have completed the nest and are ready to lay eggs, the weather, or the work of humans, or some animal destroys it, and it falls to the ground, all that they have done with so much effort. 

Do they stop? Bewildered, and leave the work? No way....It hurts to go back to begin again...Even so, the birds do not ever stop, they continue to sing and build, and keep singing and building...


© Jaroslaw Pocztarski

Do you sometimes get the feeling that your life, your work, your family is not what you had dreamed? Do you sometimes want to say "enough"... it is all too much for me! 

Do not worry if you get injured in the battle, that is to be expected. Gather yourself together and rebuild your life, so that it runs well again...Life is a constant challenge, but it is worthwhile to mostly accept it. And never stop singing."


Currently, my life is not what I've dreamed. We are a one-income family and my husband's employer is going out of business in May. We are knee-deep in a very stressful job search in two states. The worry list is miles long, the reserves of patience and strength are never enough. 

I made a decision awhile ago to avoid discussing serious kinds of things here in my happy place, but I want to be real too. I will try not worry about the injuries to my spirit right now, they are to be expected at a time like this. I will try to mostly accept it, and remember that this too shall pass.

Sweet Eventide continues to be my song, and I won't stop singing anytime soon.

On My Desk

I am a bit frustrated by my home environment lately, and the current target is my desk: "If only I had a bigger/better/everything desk, my whole life would be all better!" 

LOL. 

You know that kind of logical fallacy, don't you? Maybe your hair has been the target? "If I can control my hair, I can control my life!" Or so we hope...

In any case, my angst led me to this very interesting blog called On My Desk where "artists, illustrators, designers & creative folk share the stuff on their desks."

So in all its ugly glory, I thought I'd share the current state of my too small/not-good-enough desk!


The essentials: coffee cup, glasses, stapler, beloved lamp.


Calendar (unused since iPhone),
unused iTunes cards (why do I collect and never download?), 
a love note from the Noodle


Evidence of a month-long illness and a wicked, wicked bag of receipts


Let's look up to the left and away from the desk: 
a gifted, charming birdie, a drawing from the Noodle and a color wheel!


Okay this was a little fun even though there is a lot of work waiting for me on the desk. And if you have a better way of dealing with your receipts, I beg you to tell me about it.

Artist Profile: Kaypee Soh

Check out this series of prints about eventide by Hawaiian artist Kaypee Soh

© Kaypee Soh


"His art reflects his love for the abundance of color, texture and pattern found in nature. All art begins with a photograph taken by Kaypee, and is slowly built upon, layer by layer, with handwork, other images and coloring."

His artwork, photography and pillows can be customized and purchased in the So'mace Lifestyle Shop and you can also follow their modern pacific inspired design blog.

Playing Favorites


Buon giorno!



I have a busy week ahead of me so I thought I'd start it off by escaping  into my Flickr favorites. It might sound counter-intuitive, but I have a hunch it will be a good investment of time.

Do you already need an escape this Monday morning?

Today my favorite favorite is Purple Haze
Ahhh....dreamy.

There I feel better now. Time to attack that list!

Friday Poems: Absence of Fear

Tonight, for this week's Friday Poems, I'd like to share the lyrics to an old Jewel song from her 1998 Spirit album. This song has always made me stop and pause when I hear it. 


By the way, I've been a Jewel fan for a very long time but check out this story on her site, I've never read this level of detail about her family history before. Don't miss the absolutely stunning black & white photograph!


Absence of Fear
by Jewel*

Inside my skin there is this space
It twists and turns
It bleeds and aches
Inside my heart there's an empty room
It's waiting for lightning
It's waiting for you
And I am wanting
And I am needing you here
Inside the absence of fear
Muscle and sinew
Velvet and stone
This vessel is haunted
It creaks and moans
My bones call to you
In their separate skin
I make myself translucent
To let you in, for
I am wanting
And I am needing of you here
Inside the absence of fear
There is this hunger
This restlessness inside of me
and it knows that you're no stranger
you're my gravity
My hands will adore you through all darkness aim
They will lay you out in moonlight
And reinvent your name
For I am wanting you
And I am needing you here
I need you near
Inside the absence of fear


During different times in my life, the "you" in this song has referred to different things. The latest reference is to my creative spirit, which is compelling me forward on a path with an unknown destination, but follow it I must! 

Is there a song that you go back to over and over and it represents something new each time?

You can watch Jewel sing an early version of this song and follow her on Twitter.

Heads Up: Etsy Day

When I launched Sweet Eventide last month, I began checking out the seller's forums on Etsy. The timing was fortuitous as SchuGirl had started a conversation with everyone about having an Etsy Day.

Well, after lots of input and cooperation a day was chosen and it's coming tomorrow! 





Print out a car sign and help spread the word! Lots of people online have heard about Etsy but if you ask around the grocery store, you'll still get a lot of blank looks.

I am going to spend this day getting crafty about how I am going to participate in Etsy Day. You can follow along on their Facebook page or their Twitter feed and you can take photos of any guerilla marketing you see and upload them to Flickr with the tag, "Etsy Day 2009."

Rumor has it, there will be a special deal announced on my shop's Facebook page tomorrow morning. 

I asked my darling husband if he'd wear orange tomorrow for me and his only concern was, "Do I have anything orange?" Hmm...sounds like a mission if I've ever heard one!

Earth Day Comes to a Font Near You

I recently read about Ecofont in O Magazine.





SPRANQ, a Dutch creative communications firm, asked the deceptively simple question, "How much of a letter can be removed while maintaining readability?"

Apparently lots of coffee and hours later, they figured out that you can remove small circles and save up to 20% of your ink. Download it here for free.


Happy Earth Day!

Artist Profile: Jen Corace

Jen Corace is the illustrator of one of our favorite children's books, Little Pea. I thought I had blogged about the book's author Amy Krouse Rosenthal* last fall, but it turns out I merely shared this amazing video with a couple of people by email. 


(So I see another Little Pea post in our future).



The illustrations in this charming book are so whimsical and effective: they carry me away every time I read the book to the Noodle. I feel like rolling through life instead of walking with my feet. 

It turns out that Jen has a blog called think think, stare stare and it's really fun that she shares her Flickr -- here is a link to her collection arrrrrt! which is where I'll be spending some time today.

Amy seems to be most active on Twitter lately.